THE CAUSES OF THE ABORTION

THE CAUSES OF THE ABORTION

Children are a precious gift from God to every spouse. They are the connectors and the heirs of a family. The existence of a child thus increases the sustenance God has given to every married couple. They are also entertainers in a home with a sense of laughter and crying that always require loving affection from parents. However, now we have heard of various child abuse cases happening here and there as it has been published in newspapers and news on television. These abusers can be categorized as abdominal disorders as some of the abusers are the biological parents of the victims.

            There are many factors or causes of these child abuse cases. Among them is, for working parents they may face stress at work. Problems and pressures in the workplace are brought home and they release these pressure to innocent children. Children who are still young are stunned because they need attention from parents. The actions of parents who give up their anger and their pressure to the whining children for need of something is an unreasonable act. These uneducated parents may be hit, hit, punch, or otherwise. What is their sin so treated like that?

            Another factor that causes the cause of child abuse is due to financial problems faced by a family. The financial problems that hit a family will cause them to act violently against children. If children are asking for money or other necessities, then children should be victims of their soccer. Such a situation is so sad that children should not be treated like that at the age of those who still need affection and protection. If financial problems hit a family should not be released to children and think the best way to solve the problem. Ask for help from God to keep our hearts calm.

There are also some parents who abuse their children because of domestic crises that occur such as fights between spouses and may be caused by outsiders. For example, the husband will become more fierce and ignore the responsibility of the family for having a new lover. The result is that fights between husband and wife often apply and children are likely to be victims of fights.

            In addition, the most important factor in the problem of abuse of children is the lack of religious education among parents. Religious knowledge is very important in the household as it can provide the best guidance in managing the family. Every problem there must have been a solution if it was based on the Quran and al-Sunnah. Islam has adopted a good attitude that every Muslim needs to emulate such as a high degree of patience, especially in treating children's discomfort. AI Quran has also explained to us the painful punishment for those who do not care for their trust as well as the children who are God's trust to us.

            The problem of abuse of children should be stopped and overcome immediately. Among the ways to overcome this is by holding a "Happy Family" campaign to educate parents about their responsibilities. Everyone should dream of a happy family because the family is everything for us. Without the beloved family life is certainly meaningless. Surely we need loved ones beside us. So, with this campaign a little bit can prevent the occurrence of childish abuse.

            The authorities should also take more firm measures such as imposing severe penalties for parents or anyone who tends to surrender children. Enhancing law enforcement can cause detainees to be afraid of the punishment they will face due to inhumane acts of their own.

The authorities should also provide mentoring classes to provide parenting education to each couple who will establish a household. This education is very important for every couple to be aware of their great responsibility to be born after marriage. They are more clear about ways to educate children and ways to treat husbands or wives well. Thus, the problem of child abuse will be overcome.

In conclusion, child abuse is an abomination that is strictly prohibited by religion. This is because such acts seem to aim to protect the nation's important assets in the future and destroy our own descendants. Remember, children are God's pure and clean trusts. It is therefore our responsibility to shape it into a good person or otherwise. If they are always treated with negative actions during childhood, it is not impossible for them to become more violent when growing up. So, love the children and avoid child abuse because they are not beneficial to anybody but the sin that we will be in the next.